June 9, 2013

Why?

So, yes. Here I am again after months of not updating this blog. No excuses this time :)

Why? A simple and short question that we always use, ask and hear. We are used to use the question 'why' whenever we can't understand things that are happening. We usually ask 'why' whenever we want an explanation. We actually use it whenever we are not satisfied with the answer given to us. We usually see questions answerable with yes or no with 'why' that follows after. Why is there need for an explanation? To know the worth of our answer? To defend our answer? Or just to convince the reader to believe you? But we never realize that most of the times, the question 'why' aren't that important.



In this phase of my life, I learned not to ask 'why' too often. Of course, I still do but I just realized that in this life, I don't have to question everything around me. Instead, I have to understand that things happens for a purpose. In fact, I am glad that upon looking back, I can't remember any chance that I question God about anything. Maybe I am just lucky or I just learn to be grateful for whatever it is that I have in my life. 



Trials may come. We may feel down at times. Things may not go our way but trusting instead of asking why is better. There really are times when we will not understand what is going on but believing that we are strong and we can make it will keep us going. Yes, it may be hard but soon, it will be worth it. 

While asking why is what we are used to do when we don't understand things, it is still and will always be good to do something and stop asking. Everything will pass but having one God will always remain.

And yes, I can feel my age while typing this. For sure, as I continue my journey, more realizations will come and I'll always be glad to share it here.

xoxo